Words: Rose Macdonald-Buchanan
Cougars nowadays are far from passive. Becoming increasingly popular due to their surge through TV shows and film, it seems many men want a taste of an older woman, and her experience… But not every cougar is seeking a sexual playmate. Many, due to their age, are on the prowl for a strong relationship, so if you are hunting for one, make sure you know what she’s after. They will have limited patience for the mischief of youth so stick to these rules and she’ll be yours in no time gents.
BE ASSERTIVE
There is nothing sexier than a man who knows what he wants and this proves your maturity for your age. Be bold, not shy.
NO LABELLING
Do not talk about her as a ‘cougar.’ It suggests that she is older and some women still find the term offensive.
IGNORE THE AGE GAP
She knows she’s older so stop stating the obvious. If you continue to express how amazed you are to be in the relationship, how well it works with SO many years between you, she will get bored and it’s rude. If she doesn’t treat you like her son, do not treat her like your mum.
TAKE THINGS SLOWLY
The sex will be more steamy than any you have ever had before. She is experienced and has the stamina too but you must know her outside of a sexual relationship. Take her out for dinner, ask her what she likes, where she wants to go, and follow through. She will appreciate you caring.
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