The Royal Ascot etiquette that every gentleman needs to know
Words: Hamish Roy
When searching for advice on Royal Ascot etiquette, the first set of clues can be found in the name. With its regal connections, this racing meet has pageantry bound up in its history; in fact, it is the ceremonial element that gives it such a unique and enduring appeal. But with this rich and royal heritage come attendant traditions, and observing these is like extending a polite handshake towards the past. In order to make good on this account, we provide a short and infallible guide to having a successful, enjoyable and offence-free day at the races.
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Dress Code
Dress is seen by most racegoers as an integral part of the Ascot experience, and the Royal Enclosure provides a rare opportunity for the modern man to wear a top hat and morning suit. While this isn’t a necessity beyond the Royal Enclosure, Ascot is an inherently smart event – it pays to dress towards the upper levels of the requirements. A comprehensive guide to looking the part is available here.
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The Royal Enclosure
The rules of admission might not be quite as stringent as they once were – divorcees, for example, were only admitted from 1955 onwards – but a degree of tactful behaviour is still required. There will be recognisable figures mingling among the crowds, but it is important to remember that this is a social event, not a public appearance. Irrespective of their fame, racegoers go to Ascot to enjoy the experience, not to be besieged by questions and photograph requests from enthralled fans. The Royal Enclosure brings many an interesting character together, but admission alone doesn’t provide a sufficient social tie to launch in to conversation with the first famous face.
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Over-refreshment
Slow and steady won’t win the race, but makes for a good rule for trackside refreshment. With a celebratory atmosphere, Ascot calls for Champagne and a little indulgence – accompanied, with a little luck, by radiant sunshine. But add to this a case of too much, too soon, and you have a recipe ripe for a day of dehydration. The races may be the place to live a little, but it’s best not to be found wandering the grounds in an alcoholic fog, or worse, lying horizontally on top of them. Do so, and there’s a reasonable chance you’ll awaken to find that you’ve made the papers the next day.
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Betting
When fortune smiles upon you, it’s quite right to be pleased – sporting a Cheshire Cat grin is fine. Gloating of your personal enrichment, however, is in as poor taste as ever; spare a thought for those around you, who might not have been dealt as kind a hand. When it comes to winnings, there is a simple rule to be observed: pleased within, composed without.
Conversely, don’t allow a loss to ruin the day. Losing a bet is part and parcel of a day at the races, and it’s worth remembering that there will be countless others in the same position. Respect the fact that the bookmakers are over-subscribed as it is, and that they likely have neither the time nor the energy to provide justifications, racing histories or their own favourites for the next race. Likewise, a gentleman remembers that all bets are final: there is no room for haggling on either winnings or losses, nor should there any reason to berate a bookmaker over a displeasing result.
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Trackside behaviour
Watching a race can be transportive, and excitement is part of Ascot’s appeal. That said, to give way to overly raw emotion (such as roaring obscenities) pleases no-one, proving particularly tiresome for those nearby. Yes, get caught up in the moment, but don’t get caught venting while standing amongst a group of genteel ladies taking their strawberries and cream.
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