Words: Gentleman's Journal
A recent study conducted by fashion label Peter Hahn has revealed the top most attractive traits that a woman looks for in a man – age-old questions such as whether it’s still expected of you to pay up on a date or not are answered. So, if you’re looking to carry on impressing the woman in your life, read on.
Funnily enough, manners are the top most essential trait a gentleman needs to have in order to be attractive to the opposite sex. It’s a simple case of please and thank you, of holding the door open, giving up your seat for someone more in need than you. Miss these, and your luck will soon run out.
Again, it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that one of the most attractive traits a man can have is being interesting and interested, a skill learnt by being well-read. Whether that means having your finger on the pulse of current affairs, or taking the time to read one of the world’s best novels, make sure you’re staying in the know.
Being discreet about money is imperative. No one in this world likes a bragger, no matter how successful or rich they are. You just got a huge pay rise? Great, good for you. Keep it close to you and discreetly pay for everyone’s drinks for a night, not mentioning it to anyone. That, my friend, is a lot more attractive than bragging to the whole bar about how big, clever or rich you are.
Going to a football match? Great, wear your football shirt. Going out to dinner? Absolutely do not wear your football shirt. The same goes for wearing a suit, a shirt, a tie when (and only when) the occasion is appropriate. Get it right.
This should not come as a surprise, but smelling nice, showering, washing your hair and keeping your beard in check are all essential components to basic personal hygiene. No woman is going to find you attractive if you smell terrible, you have greasy locks or an out of control beard. Lock it up, gentlemen.
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